Friday, June 30, 2017

The Bonding

I’ve told the story of the Buck Brannaman Clinic—a definite high point of my riding (uh-hum) career. Over four days, the master took frightened, confused, or just inexperienced horses and explained to them the right way horses should be and do.
            He helped one or two….dozen….people as well.
            When not working and learning, my beautiful Tripp shared a paddock with another gelding, separated from the paddocks around them with temporarily-erected electric fences. The horses all visited across the lines, but learned to not get too close to those hot wires. However, Tripp, used to staying with three temperamental mares at home, instantly took to his gelding buddy, who liked Tripp as well, and as they grazed on that amazingly green, lush grass, I never saw them farther than ten feet from each other.

Tripp in Pasture
            The problem with vacations? They end. As his newfound friend moved to the barn where he would spend an extra night at the farm, leaving the next morning, Tripp watched, eyes huge, panic spreading over that beautiful face. I so wanted to explain to him that in just a bit our ride home would arrive, that it would be okay, that I knew he loved his new friend, but once home, he would, again, adapt to his normal life.
            Instead, Tripp threw back that gorgeous head and called out a heartbreaking whinny, so anguished and despairing, tears filled my eyes.  He stood, crying over and over into the distance, his grief a physical thing…..
            Eventually, our ride did, indeed, arrive, and we made it back home. Of course, he recognized his barn, his pasture….but that wrenching cry stayed in my memory. He knew the horses here; he came here as a young colt, around two years old, and knows the rhythms of the days here, the people who so love and care for him, the horses in his pasture and those around him change a bit now again. But, really, the farm is home.
            Still…..
            And so, I spoke to the kind folks at the barn, and these wonderful, kind people and I got together—and Ghost Ryder came.
Ghost Ryder

            Ghostie works in the camp sometimes, students ride him as a lesson horse. Rarely, I even climb on that big boy myself for a very different-feeling ride than Tripp gives me. But, his other big job involves being Tripp’s friend. It took time—any new home takes adjustment for the horse coming in, and guaranteed, his new home here at the farm raised GR’s standard of living by light years. But, also, when a new herd member arrives, always strata shifts, they have to work out just who rules the roost, er, pasture above all others, who has first say at the hay pile, and so on, generally with the girls shifting everyone around at their whims. Ghost Ryder learned patience (Tripp and the girls all have their own ways of things), and he learned good things like how to eat carrots. I wonder what it felt like for this horse who had so obviously NOT had all the food he wanted—after all the medical folks cleared him--to eat to be able to graze whenever he wanted; he had arrived here nightmare thin. The folks here, his rescue angels, improved his lot, and he learned that people bring good, sweet things.  Even after his difficult past, he still doesn’t push others aside; “a patient horse,” that’s our Ghostie boy.
Tripp Waits for Ghost Ryder

            And…..at the end of a ride with Tripp, I walk him back to his pasture where five horses wait. I love to watch them interact with each other. Frequently, not always, but often a stunning grey horse lifts his head and lets out a soft call. Other times, he just keeps on munching grass. But, always of late, after I removes Tripp’s halter, after he rolls in the dirt so he can scratch that…….one…….spot, rolling, rolling back and forth, these two geldings, my Tripp and my (not really mine, but sort of) Ghost Ryder move calmly, unhurriedly till they stand together, the other horses know, of course, where everyone else is. But my (sort of) two boys hang out…..Tripp has a buddy.
            Thank you, Ghost Ryder.
Ghost Ryder & Tripp

           

             
Ryder & Tripp Under the Trees

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